Family, Inc. Workbook

The Family Inc. Workbook is a 34 page guide that will help you plan for your family’s future by accomplishing five steps.

The 5 Steps You Will Learn In
The Family Inc. Workbook

Step 1: Deciding My Family’s Foundation

Step 2: Designing My Family’s Vision

Step 3: Describing My Family’s Mission

Step 4: Defining My Family’s Values

Step 5: Determining My Family’s Goals


Think of this workbook as a step-by-step guide to walk your family through the process of creating your family’s mission statement.

There are questions to answer, activities to complete and thoughts to record. You will brainstorm ideas and think creatively about the focus and future of your family. The process is simple, but it will take some time to complete. Enjoy the process and set a reasonable pace to walk through each step. You don’t need to rush, but don’t let it drag either. The longer you wait between steps the more momentum you lose.


Cell Phone Responsibility Agreement

Normal Use

  • I will not text or place phone calls between ___:____p.m. and ___:____a.m.
  • I will send no more than ______ texts per day.
  • I will not exceed my allotted monthly minutes or text message limits.
  • I will charge my phone in an open space and not in my room.


  • I will answer my phone when my parent calls.
  • I will not download/subscribe to anything on my phone without parental permission.
  • I will not disable any parental controls on my phone.
  • I will tell my parents when I receive inappropriate texts or sexts.
  • I will tell my parents if I am being harassed by someone on my cell phone.
  • I will not harass or bully anyone with my cell phone.
  • I will not use my cell phone to arrange meetings with anyone my parents don’t know.


  • I will not send threatening or mean texts to others.
  • I will not take or send embarrassing photos of myself, my family or my friends.
  • I will not share photos with other people without their permission.
  • I will not text messages about people in a way that hurts their reputation.
  • I will not forward a hurtful message or picture sent to me about someone else.

Being Polite

  • I will not bring my cellphone anywhere that my parents prohibit its use, like the family dinner table.
  • I will not be rude to others by talking or texting in public places where cell phone use is not allowed or is inappropriate, like in a church or a library.
  • I will follow all school rules about cell phone use.

The following are reasonable consequences if any of the above rules are broken.


  • I understand that having a cell phone is a privilege that can be taken away.
  • I understand this agreement will help me to demonstrate responsible behavior.
  • I understand my parents reward good behavior with more freedom.
  • I understand there are consequences for breaking this agreement.

Parent Responsibilities

  • I will answer any questions my child has about owning a cell phone.
  • I will periodically revisit these rules as my child gets older and technology evolves.
  • I will not take away my child’s cell phone if he [or she] comes to me regarding inappropriate content received from someone else.


Child’s Signature: ____________________________ Today’s Date: _______

Parent’s Signature: ___________________________ Today’s Date: _______


Rules for Maintaining a Healthy Social Media Account

  1. You must “friend” Mom and Dad and keep us as “friends” at all times.

  2. You must provide your social media password to Mom and Dad and let us know if you ever change it.

  3. Do not “friend” anyone that you don’t know personally. For example, don’t “friend” another person’s friend just because you know that other person.

  4. Don’t post a profile picture with someone other than a best friend, family member or pet. At some point your girlfriend or boyfriend is acceptable.

  5. Don’t “like” or comment on any post that will hurt someone else, hurt your parents or disappoint God.

  6. Don’t post any pictures of others without their permission—including a profile picture. Ask them first.

  7. Don’t “like” any websites, apps, music or videos that are inappropriate. If you don’t know, then ask Mom or Dad.

  8. Remember that future employers and universities often check social media sites when considering you for employment or enrollment when you are older.

  9. Ask Mom and Dad if you have any questions or concerns about something on any social media site.

  10. Think before you post anything. Things you post can exist forever online, even if you delete them right away. Someone could have taken a screen shot of your post and saved it. If you are not sure if you should post something, don’t post it.


I understand these social media guidelines, and I also understand that if I break one of these rules my account(s) may be suspended as a consequence.


Child’s Signature: ____________________________ Today’s Date: _______

Parent’s Signature: ___________________________ Today’s Date: _______


Venture Minute: May 27, 2018

Our next Discover Baptism class is coming up on June 10. Baptism is a way to share publicly what God has done in our hearts through Jesus, so if you haven’t been baptized yet, now’s a great time to take that next step in your faith. Sign up at our website.

Next, have you ever thought about leading a group, class or team here at Venture, but been afraid you wouldn’t know what to do? Sign up online and join us on June 10 for a quick overview on how to lead a group where people can connect and grow spiritually!

And last, consider a life changing short term mission trip with our India teams this Fall. We have two trips to India, one ministering to orphans and women rescued from human trafficking, as well as a trip to offer free medical care in remote villages. Stop by the info hub after service to learn how you can partner and pray for these teams.

Looking to stay up-to-date with all that’s going on at Venture? Don’t forget to check your program, our website, or sign up for the Venture Weekly Email. 

Venture Minute: May 20, 2018

Hey everyone, and welcome to the Venture Minute, a quick look at what’s ahead.

In your 20s or 30s and looking to connect?  Join me next Saturday for a one-day retreat focused on spiritual refreshment. Don’t miss this opportunity to set a day aside and recharge in nature, spend time in prayer, and worship.  Sign up

Next, have you or someone you know thought about baptism? Take the next step and follow Jesus’ example by being baptized. The next Discover Baptism Class is Sunday morning, June 10. Sign up at

And last, continue to invite friends to the new family series! Don’t miss Pastors Chip and Craig teach on How to Raise a Healthy Family in a Modern World. Invite friends online by sharing our posts, the email invite or picking up invite cards at the Info Hub after service.

Looking to stay up-to-date with all that’s going on at Venture? Don’t forget to check your program, our website, or sign up for the Venture Weekly Email.

How To “Buy Time” With Your Family

I like what author Tim Ferris says, "I think time management as a label encourages people to view each 24-hour period as a slot in which they should pack as much as possible." But what if we want more time? Can we get it? Can we buy it? Walk with me for a minute...

Do you like a good sale? You know, the “take 50 percent off the already low price” kind of a sale! You get quality merchandise at a great value. I guess if I have one complaint about such a sale is that they usually don’t last. If you don’t make time now––while the sale is on––then you will have missed a great opportunity.

We are reminded to take advantage of a good sale or good opportunity in the Bible. It’s true! Ephesians 5:15-17 talks all about it:

So be careful how you live. Don’t live like fools, but like those who are wise. Make the most of every opportunity in these evil days. Don’t act thoughtlessly, but understand what the Lord wants you to do.
— Ephesians 5:15-17

Now, you may be inclined to take the words “what the Lord wants you to do” as an instruction to go and take advantage of every great sale at the mall. I would say “A” for effort, but that’s not the part of these verses that talk about a sale.

It’s actually the words, “make the most of every opportunity.” Those six words literally mean “buying the time.” Now, we all know there isn’t a place that sells time, so what does it mean to “buy the time”? The thought goes back centuries and was a metaphor taken from the time when merchants would observe the best time to sell their goods, much like ads for a sale catch our attention today.

A few years ago, I was invited to be a guest speaker on a cruise ship. As it turned out, I was available! When the ship arrived at our first port of call, passengers had the option of staying on the ship or disembarking and walking around town. We opted for the second. Once we stepped off the ship, we were met by at least 50 people selling T-shirts, jewelry, purses and food. I guess you could say they were in the right place at the right time.

Pretty smart to be in that exact location at the very moment when the ship arrived. It’s like they somehow knew. Well, of course they knew, and I’m sure they knew when the next ship was due into the port as well. You see, they were “buying the time”––taking advantage of the opportunity.

Just like a modern sale has a beginning and an end, and just like our cruise had specific arrival and departure times, our time on earth is limited, and we need to be ready to take advantage of the time we have.

To put it bluntly, our children sail in to our lives and then sail out. 

We have a limited time with them, so we must take advantage of the opportunity. We must buy the time we have with them now.

We can’t just sit back and expect all the good deals in life to come to us. We must do the looking and comparing to find the best way to make the most of our time with our family. That will mean saying no to some good opportunities in favor of better opportunities, or the best opportunity.

We can only do this by reaching forward and looking ahead. When we look back and see what we have missed, we may say, “Now that I look back, I should have taken advantage of that opportunity.” Our hindsight is pretty clear. It’s when we look ahead that life can appear to be a little fuzzy; but that’s where our faith comes in.

We ask God for the wisdom necessary to make the most of our time, and we take advantage of every opportunity we have with our family. If we don’t take advantage of our time, it will sail away, it will pass us by. Time does not stop while we try to decide how to best take advantage of it. Time is relentless that way. Taking advantage of each opportunity requires a certain diligence and planning from each one of us.

1. How will you “buy the time” today?
2. What moment will you take advantage of with your family today?


How To Spend Uninterrupted Time Together This Week


As a parent ask and answer this question. “What one thing can I stop doing to have a better family life pace?


Just before bedtime, Read Ephesians 5:15-16 together as a family then pray this prayer. “God, help us to be careful with our time. Give us wisdom as a family to know how to make the best use of our time together. Amen”


Have dinner together and ask this question and let everyone answer, “What where your highs and lows today?”


Parents, on a separate piece of paper, write a note to each of your children letting them know how much you love them. Put it in their lunch or on the mirror in the bathroom for them to see.


Collect each family member’s phone and put them in a drawer. Spend the next hour playing a board game that gets you all talking.

How To Create Space For A Healthy Family Pace


The picture above doesn't look like much, in fact, it doesn't look like anything at all! Garbled, unreadable, cluttered, stressful it just doesn't make sense. So, why the picture?

The picture is significant because it's this entire post without any space. Without space the message is unclear at best, unreadable at worst. Words on a page need space in order to make sense. We really don't notice when space is there, but when it isn't, we can tell. Without space words loose their meaning and, you can see where I am going with this, without space, people loose their meaning too.

Without space our overscheduled and unchecked lives become garbled, unreadable, cluttered, stressful and it just doesn't make sense.

Creating space around and within our schedule allows for freedom of movement.

How do we create space around our work and family life?

It honestly comes down to healthy boundaries and healthy awareness. At times I schedule appointments and things I need to get done back to back to back. 8:00-9:00 then 9:00-10:00 then 10:00-11:00 and it allows me to accomplish more because the "get it done gene" inside me likes the feeling of accomplishment. This "lack of space" in my day also allows me to be less tolerant toward others (usually toward the ones I love) , and give me a sense of accomplishment buy staying "busy."

We all need to create a little space in our lives. Call it what you want, wiggle room, balance, margin, me time, whatever you call it, "it" won't work unless you practice it. I will be the first to NOT point a finger. The picture here is a screen shot right from my calendar. 

Clearly I'm a work in progress. I will tell you that my schedule rarely looks like this anymore and it's an exception rather than the rule however, occasionally, I fall back in to old habits and bump things right up against each other with no space. And, on occasion, I actually overlap things hoping the "time fairy" will actually give me more time.

So, I'm writing this post for me...and you!

Let's think about creating some space. Let's think about setting a few healthy boundaries or borders or margins or limits so life makes sense!

Creating Some Space For A Healthy Pace

1. Create Space For YOUR Family

Creating space for your family takes one thing into consideration...YOUR family. It's not being selfish it's being real. For instance, a healthy no for your family could be another family’s healthy yes. Space within your family's schedule needs to make sense for your family not the family at church or down the street.

2. Create Space You Can See

A calendar is a great place to see open space. Without a few lines between sentences a paragraph looses meaning and the same is true with family. Without a few moments between appointments or after school activities life becomes a grind filled with hurry not joy. You will often hear the phrase, "happy and healthy." You never hear, "hurried and healthy."

3. Create Space For Face to Face

When you are running from here to there with no margin or space life feels like one big hamster wheel. You are doing a lot of work but to no end. Get some face time with your spouse and talk about ways to loosen up your schedule and create space so life doesn't feel so rushed and non-stop.

Once you create some space, you will notice things begin to change. Please understand, things won’t change overnight; they will change over time. You will most likely experience a bit of negative feedback from your children, whose lives are suddenly altered with "down time." However, after the initial shock has worn off, you will all experience a less rushed and more healthy family life.